First Consultation
Individual Counselling
The first session is to build conversance and to acquire the necessary background information about the individual. This session, sets the pace and the foundation on which all future sessions will be built. I am excited to learn and grow with you. Come with willingness and excitement…. It is always worth-it!
I am a registered Counsellor at the Council for Counsellors in South Africa. Counselling is a gift and an investment to yourself. Our lives are not perfect and no one’s life is. Though if we choose not to take action then our suffering becomes more intense and life's demands becomes challenging. If we are willing to go on an adventure of self-discovery then we start to discover the deep satisfaction which change brings. The more we change, the more flow we create in our lives. Therefore counselling is about bringing change to your current situations, circumstances, beliefs, etc. I make use of tools and techniques which I have learned through the years of my own healing journey. Counselling is a safe and a sacred space to discover the depths of your own power but it is also a safe space to discover the depths of your pain as well. There is no right and wrong in this space because what is right for me is maybe wrong for you. So I am not here to choose your healing path for you, I am here to walk your healing path with you as your path is unique to you. I will guide you to walk on your path fearlessly and bravely. When you start to stand in your power you will love all of who you are and all of who you are becoming. Risk, be brave, I am ready to meet you when you are ready. I am not here to force your path, but I do request a willingness and a commitment toward yourself. My intention is to walk with you every step of the way until you can walk alone. Sometimes vital things happens and we fall and I will be available to pick you up and to help you to stand high even in the darkest times as I know the dark times in our lives is the sign posts to our greatness.
Trauma Counselling
We all try to run away from our traumas through forgetting, denying, blaming, and many more escape routs. Your trauma will keep finding you when you least expect it to arise. You cannot hate the trauma or the person or the event which created the trauma, as hate brings resentment, regret and blame. The only way to heal trauma is to work through it, then your trauma will become your wisdom, your understanding and your compassion. You will only understand the gift of trauma once you have worked through it. Trauma recovery deals with reviving trauma to enable survivors to integrate the trauma into their lives. In order to achieve healing, they have to reject their notions that they are dysfunctional and different. Healing is said to begin when these persons start to reconnect with their strengths, identify defenses that previously kept them “locked into” the trauma and find ways to dismantling these defenses. Trauma counselling is largely a process whereby traumatized people are enabled to work through their tribulation memories to the point where they feel better. While they might never be able to forget their most painful experiences, they may reach a point where they are able to have these recollections without feeling overwhelmed or seriously disturbed. Unless survivors have an opportunity to address their feelings regarding their abuse, these feelings may have an impact on their relationships with friends, lovers and their children, their self-esteem, their relationships with their bodies and their career performance. The goal in recovery is to enable the survivor to achieve “ordinary levels of effective functioning”, which would be: ·The ability to give energy to everyday life. ·Experiencing psychological comfort, instead of constantly experiencing pain and distress. ·The ability to experience gratification – to enjoy life’s pleasures when they occur. ·Developing hopefulness regarding the future; being able to make plans for the future, and displaying a commitment to these plans. ·The ability to adequately perform social roles as a spouse, a parent and a member of the community.
Psychometric Testing
Career Counselling
I do believe we are all here for a purpose. Your purpose and your gift is different than mine as what is yours belongs to you therefore you need to discover it. My life purpose is to guide people back to themselves as we tend to lose ourselves and we tend to forget why we are here in a human body, having a human experience. You have a soul purpose, my soul purpose is to shift consciousness. Once we have discovered your career purpose, it is easy to discover your life purpose and your soul purpose – then you start to live a life of inspiration and others start to feel inspired and motivated by your presence. Every aspect of self-evidence opens doors to a new way. It is never too late to remember who you are and to live a life of inspiration. Link your inner drive with your career! Develop yourself and discover your talents – The world is waiting for your gifts of Uniqueness. Time to choose a career, which will assist you in living your own truth! More information on these sessions: These sessions will happen preferably in a weekly manner and the amount of sessions depend on the individual itself. Before the first session you will receive various on-line assessments which you must complete. One of these assessments will entail the talents of your Personality. This Assessment test takes 45 minutes to complete. All tests must be done 2 days before appointment, in order for me to do the necessary preparation for your first session (Assessments is in English only). We discover your talents and your inner self first, then we choose a career, based on your true identity! I use a combination of Personality Profiles and Tools in order to support the individual to determine the ideal career opportunities. There is not only one career for you, there is more than one career option waiting for you. When we choose a career which is in alignment with us, we feel fulfilled and our career supports us to become whole and to feel more complete as well. What these sessions entail: Usually the first 3-4 sessions, we discover your Strengths. As we when we know our strengths we can command them to support us when we need them. I combine the different personality profile tests together in order to give you an overall perspective of who you are and what you have come to do and to experience on this planet.
It is a form of counselling sought by an individual requiring professional advice regarding his / her subject choices, possible fields of study and / or career choices. Career counselling provides the individual with an opportunity to know himself/ herself better and to discuss potential suitability for a specific career.
Marriage Counselling
Relationships tend to challenge us - if they become stagnant. Our relationships needs to evolve as we evolve, otherwise we stay behind or we block another person’s potential to move forward. Every relationship has its challenges, when we choose not to work with these challenges, they become our obstacles and we start to lose the beauty of the other individual and the connection between them and us. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Therefore I usually request a couple to commit to 12 sessions in order to implement the necessary changes to be successful. How Couple Counselling Works: In the first session, I speak with both individuals in order to get the overall perspective of the situation. Then I usually speak with each individual to hear and to understand their own truth. Couple counselling is a journey people usually choose to do together. I would recommend that you and your partner or partners will be willing to walk the journey together. When we walk the journey together we start to understand and to grow with each other. Once the couple realise the core of the problem they feel both relieved as a higher understanding removes the judgement and the pain. Once the couple have a new vision the couple becomes empowered to move beyond their individual and collective thinking. The satisfaction of the end result gets determined by the willingness of both parties to grow and to discover themselves and their partners on new levels.
Counselling For Children Age 8-15
Family Counselling
Many of our wounds originate from childhood. If we listen and respond to our children’s wounds, we can support them to become more whole individuals in a challenging world. When we understand our children’s challenges we become conscious of how we can support our children to make empowering choices. Children has emotions, they have thinking patterns and habits which they don’t understand. Children tend to express their fears, concerns different from us, as their reality is different than our reality. The principle for adults and for children is the same namely: What we don’t understand overwhelms us. Sometimes children cry out for help through anger, tantrums, bed wetting, back chatting, suicide, depression or through silence. Counselling Techniques for Children: ·I use Play as a therapeutic tool to work with children. ·Children relates with stories, therefore I use stories as a healing tool for children. ·Creativity is the gift of creating a new life, therefore I use various creative tools to give each child the space to understand their pain through self-expression. I specialise in Foster Care Children support. I specialise also in children with Anger and Rage. I also specialise with children who experiences loss of parents.
Every family has its challenges. All these challenges that we experience in a family structure is a guideline for what our souls needs in order to grow to the next level. If we choose not to deal with the family’s challenges then we grow apart from the family and we grow apart from ourselves as well. Once we honour those who came before us and those who is our blood, then we learn to respect ourselves and those around us. Modern families can get quite complicated due to various factors such as: Divorce; Steph-family; Addictions; illnesses; Death, etc. A lot of factors needs to be included in order to create a happy family but a willing family is the key to a happy family. Every family member has a different story and a different frame of reference. What to expect in Family Counselling Session: We discover and we discuss each family member’s truth. We look at the impact of each family members actions and behaviours. We focus on getting a higher perspective of the agreement between the family members. We look at how the family can work together as a whole in order to enhance the maximum potential for each family member. By gaining a deeper understanding of each individuals challenges, needs and desires we attain a family that works together and not against one another therefore the family are able to achieve more.
Group Counselling
For Family or Businesses... Friends, Colleagues have certain needs and desires therefore they request group counselling sessions. These sessions gets created in order to fulfil the needs of the clients. Mostly these group of people require to grow together in a certain direction in life, as they have realized if they grow together emotionally and mentally they are equipped to have a healthier and a more effective relationship.
Life Coaching
Spiritual Coaching
Is your life a Master Piece? Are you proud of where you are right now and where you are going? Do you have structure, order to create stability and safety in your own life? What is holding you back to be in alignment with your goals? I am a Life coach and a Life Coach Tutor for Blackford Institute. Life coaching is about finding the blockages that blocks your successes. When we start to ask the right questions, we get the right answers to awaken the higher potential of each individual. Life coaching is a great tool to set goals, to overcome obstacles and to discover what you allow to stand between you and your own greatness. Life coaching supported me to discover my own truths, as to be honest to ourselves is the greatest obstacle on our paths. If you have plans for a new adventure and you battle to take action or if your vision doesn’t become true – then I would suggest Life coaching for you.
During these sessions, the focus is to connect and realign you with yourself, your God, and the Universe. Throughout these sessions you will gain profound insights and a deeper understanding of yourself and your role as a creator on earth.
Neuro - Linguistic Programming
Many times we feel stuck in our own beliefs, opinions, perceptions and in our own behaviour patterns. NLP is a great tool to remove the rigidity of a certain aspect in our lives which were blocked by the subconscious mind. NLP can also treat problems such as phobias, depression and various disorders. NLP stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Linguistic refers to language; programming refers to how that neural language functions. In other words, learning NLP is like learning the language of your own mind. Neuro-Linguistic Programming is like a user’s manual for the brain, and NLP training is like learning how to become fluent in the language of your mind so that the ever-so-helpful “server” that is your subconscious will finally understand what you actually want out of life. NLP is the study of excellent communication-botha with yourself, and with others. It was developed by modelling excellent communicators with their clients. NLP is a set of tools and techniques, but it is so much more than that. It is an attitude and a methodology of knowing how to achieve your goals and to get results.
Family Constellations
Lymph Drainage Massage
Bodytalk
One on One Session or Group Session... Our families are not whole therefore we are not whole. But to become whole we need to understand and move beyond the stagnant structure of the family system itself. We all have an Adam and an Eve in our family history .What happened back then? What did Eve do? What did Adam do? What part of me lives in shame? Who was the serpent? Where does the suffering live within me? This is what withhold people from living happy and fulfilling lives. “Children seldom or never dare to live a happier or more fulfilling life than their parents. Unconsciously they remain loyal to unspoken family traditions that work invisibly. Family Constellations are a way of discovering underlying family bonds and forces that have been carried unconsciously over several generations – (Bertold Ulsamer). A family Constellation is a three-dimensional group process that has the power to shift generations of suffering and unhappiness. Bert Hellinger, the founder of this work, who studied and treated families for more than 50 years, observed that many of us unconsciously “take on” destructive familial patterns of anxiety, depression, anger, guilt, aloneness, alcoholism and even illness as a way of “belonging” in our families. Bonded by a deep love, a child will often sacrifice his own best interests in a vain attempt to ease the suffering of a parent or other family member. Family Constellations allow us to break these patterns so that we can live healthier, happier, more fulfilled lives. In a moment of insight, a new life course can be set in motion. The results can be life changing. Family constellations brings peace, harmony, acceptance and a deeper understanding for self and for all the family members. Once we have a greater understanding, the family moves forward in unity and in compassion. What to bring for your family constellation session: You don’t need to bring your family in order to discover your family truths, just bring yourself as we are connected with our families and the process will reveal the truths for itself. Please book for Family Constellation in Advance as I will ask you to complete a questionnaire in advance.
What does lymphatic drainage massage do? Lymphatic drainage massage, also known as manual lymphatic drainage, relieves swelling that happens when medical treatment or illness blocks your lymphatic system. Lymphatic drainage massage involves gently manipulating specific areas of your body to help lymph move to an area with working lymph vessels.
BodyTalk is an intuitive Consciousness based healthcare system. BodyTalk uses both Eastern and Western knowledge to address the client holistically. There is no pre-set agenda by me as the practitioner, your body-mind provides the priorities for the session. I work with your permission to talk and listen to your body: focusing on addressing physical [aches and pains], emotional [upsets and conflicts], mental [chatter and disturbances], and spiritual [questions and seeking] discomforts. Every part of the body has a certain consciousness, in other words emotions, beliefs, memories, events, expectations, ancestral and environmental triggers can have a profound effect on your body. BodyTalk addresses these factors too to guide your body back to complete wellness.
Enneagram Test & Coaching Special
Relationship introspection course
Acupuncture ( Detox and Addiction)
Are you ready to discover your Enneagram Type and coaching on how to integrate and develop these strengths into your relationships and other important areas of your life? The Enneagram is a system of personality typing that describes patterns in how people interpret the world and manage their emotions. It is a tool we use for self-discovery and personal growth! Find out how your individual traits fit into one of 9 personality types! Understand your motivations and Fears!
This course consist out of 12 sessions for a couple. During these sessions we will find a new way of understanding your relationship and of shifting your relationship to a whole new level. These sessions wil bring healing and growth within yourself and mostly in the relationship. A total of 12 sessions is required to make the shift. I will recommend weekly sessions. If you book and pay for all 12 sessions, the price is only R6000. If you are unable to pay the special price and if you attend all the sessions, then the last session will be free.
Auricular acupuncture can be used for a wide range of indications, and it is especially useful to relieve pain, calm the mind, treat allergies and infectious diseases, regulate endocrine system disorders, and treat chronic disease and functional disorders. It is also used for withdrawal syndrome.
Communication skills inside your relationship
This course consist out of 4 couple counselling sessions. Good communication is essential for any healthy relationship. Lack of communication leads to conflict in any relationship. During these sessions you will learn how to express your emotions effectively to your partner and how to convey a message effectively. Conflict is also part of any relationship, hence come and learn how to handle conflict effectively and various other factors through communication. These sessions will create flow in your communication and will support each of you to express yourself freely and truthfully. I will recommend weekly sessions. If you book and pay for all 4 sessions, the price is only R2000.